My alarm clock has it in for me. Granted, I don't use it every day since we are retired, but it still is making itself known. It sits there and sneers at me because it knows I don't really know how to control it. Like, I don't know how to change the time. I know now that you aren't supposed to have to, but once I tried to set it for Daylight Savings Time, not realizing that it is All Knowing and wanted to do that by itself. So, it moved six minutes and that was all and now it won't go back, so I always have to factor in the extra six minutes and since it involves math I get confused sometimes whether to add or subtract.
Who knew it was able to do it's own thing even when the government keeps changing the day that the time changes each year? I just go to sleep now on Time Change Day with it one time, and when I wake up it has reset itself to an hour later or earlier, depending on the season. It is kind of creepy.
It is supposed to allow you to change the time you want the alarm to go off, of course, but I can't remember how to do that either. It sometimes just comes on randomly, like at three-forty-five IN THE MORNING!!! even though I think I've got it turned off. It's a clock-radio and trust me, some guy shouting about politics all of a sudden in your bedroom in the middle of the night is not conducive to restful slumber. Or it doesn't go off when I need to wake up at a certain time. In fact, now that Gus, the Wonder-Yorkie, who has been our real alarm clock for five years, has gotten older and started sleeping in some, I'm going to have to figure it out. There may be an instruction book around here somewhere. Or my daughter-in-law, Jerilyn, may show up some day. She can stare it down and make it mind. She got it started when I first got it, I think. (Or that may have been the answering machine, but that's another blog.)
There's an alarm feature on my cell phone that Jerilyn set up for when I have to take some medicine at the same time each day. I can't work that thing either. It's not for lack of trying. Or, at least I used to try before I got so frustrated I gave up. Okay, I tried once. Actually, a lot of times but all on one day. Or night. It was very critical and I have been so mad at it that I never want to look at that feature again. Our son, Josh, was leaving on his deployment, so emotions were already running high, and we needed to be up at four a.m. to go to the airport with him. We had stayed at Josh and Jerilyn's house so we could do that. There was no alarm clock in the guest room, but I thought, "No problem. I've got my cell phone." HA! I tried to set it about six-hundred and fifty times till I gave up and basically stayed awake all night checking the time about every fifteen minutes. Did I mention I'm somewhat technically-challenged?
There was a day, probably before you were born, when clocks actually had faces and there were hands that went around and pointed to numbers and told you what time it was. You used a second set of hands to set the alarm for the time you wanted to get up, and they had buttons that you pulled out and you just hit the buttons to turn them off. Even I could do it. Back then, I would set two clocks, one next to the bed, then one across the room for ten minutes later so I actually had to get up to turn it off. It was very efficient. You couldn't hit the snooze button eleven times and still be late for work like you can today.
The alarm clock I have now has been intruding into my life lately by making strange noises, like static, every time my cell phone is on the night stand with it. I'm not sure if the two of them are communicating in some strange, secret code, plotting against me, or if the noise is the sound of aliens trying to contact earth and the presence of the cell phone heightens the magnetic field for them. I stopped it for awhile by setting a heavy coaster on top of the clock, but the other night they were back, even with the weight there.
If I don't show up for something some morning when you were expecting me, come check. It could be that the Evil Alarm Clock has won its battle. Then again, I could just still be snoozing away. The best revenge is a good night's sleep.
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Monday, October 15, 2012
Night Noises
It's too noisy to sleep in our bedroom. Since I've had this cold I'm really tired, so you'd think it would be easy to fall asleep, but I keep hearing this squeaking sound. And kind of a whistling. You know those paper New Year's Eve horns that roll up and down? Like that. Or there is a mouse right under my pillow. But, wait. It's even closer than that! It's my nose! Or, more accurately, my sinuses. Holding my breath doesn't work out too well. Neither does holding my nose. How the heck are you supposed to get away from a noise when it is you??
And then I lay there worrying that I'm keeping Dennis awake with the Sinus's Seventh Symphony. He is asleep pretty soon, though. I can tell by his breathing. You would think that he would be a snorer, but he's really not. Oh, sometimes a little bit, but not like some people that you can hear two houses away. He claims that I am the one who snores, but we know that couldn't be possible from a dainty little (stop smirking!) old lady like me. Okay, I have woken myself up with a snort or two a couple of times, but I would never admit it to Dennis, and you don't need to blab, either.
Gus, the Wonder Yorkie, is the one who snores the most. He sleeps on the foot of our bed.This is the dog who sits on my lap while I'm watching television at night and I will almost wet my pants to keep from getting up and disturbing him when he's comfortable. He doesn't snore then. Sometimes I kick his pillows to rouse him just a tiny bit so he will turn over. But it takes me a long time to decide to do it. So I just lay there. Listening to my nose. It's probably Gus who Dennis is hearing when he thinks I'm snoring.
What Dennis does in his sleep that cracks me up is, he chuckles. I wish I knew what was so funny. Sometimes he talks a little bit but not enough to really understand him, even though I try. I guess he's telling himself jokes. It's pretty likely I've heard them all more than few times before, anyway. You probably have too. Come to think of it, maybe some of his really weird jokes are ones he just "dreamed up." Years ago.
When we first got married he talked in his sleep and it was loud and clear. He wasn't used to having anyone else in the bed and he must have felt crowded because we had not been married a week when he said in a very stern voice, "You are going to have to learn to stay out of my armpit!" I looked to see if we were going to have our first fight, but he was sound asleep. Or at least he pretended to be.
If noise is coming from somewhere else in the house it is at least possible to deal with. When the boys were teen-agers and we went to bed before they did, after the third, "Quiet down out there!", we often turned on the fan even when it wasn't hot so the "white noise" would drown out a lot of the commotion in the living room.
And here is my hint if you have a drippy faucet: put a sponge underneath the drip and you won't hear it. I don't know what to tell you about the neighbor's dog who whines all night. When we had that happen I asked my neighbor if she had heard a baby crying in the neighborhood. Turns out it was her dog and they did move it to another place or something. Really. I thought it was a baby. It was a total mystery to me how she assumed it was her dog.
Until this cold is over I'll just have to keep trying new things. Tonight I'm going to try to breathe in a rhythm. I'm hoping it will at least be kind of a lullaby. Eventually I'm sure I'll fall asleep. It will be just an hour before it is time to get up.
And then I lay there worrying that I'm keeping Dennis awake with the Sinus's Seventh Symphony. He is asleep pretty soon, though. I can tell by his breathing. You would think that he would be a snorer, but he's really not. Oh, sometimes a little bit, but not like some people that you can hear two houses away. He claims that I am the one who snores, but we know that couldn't be possible from a dainty little (stop smirking!) old lady like me. Okay, I have woken myself up with a snort or two a couple of times, but I would never admit it to Dennis, and you don't need to blab, either.
Gus, the Wonder Yorkie, is the one who snores the most. He sleeps on the foot of our bed.This is the dog who sits on my lap while I'm watching television at night and I will almost wet my pants to keep from getting up and disturbing him when he's comfortable. He doesn't snore then. Sometimes I kick his pillows to rouse him just a tiny bit so he will turn over. But it takes me a long time to decide to do it. So I just lay there. Listening to my nose. It's probably Gus who Dennis is hearing when he thinks I'm snoring.
What Dennis does in his sleep that cracks me up is, he chuckles. I wish I knew what was so funny. Sometimes he talks a little bit but not enough to really understand him, even though I try. I guess he's telling himself jokes. It's pretty likely I've heard them all more than few times before, anyway. You probably have too. Come to think of it, maybe some of his really weird jokes are ones he just "dreamed up." Years ago.
When we first got married he talked in his sleep and it was loud and clear. He wasn't used to having anyone else in the bed and he must have felt crowded because we had not been married a week when he said in a very stern voice, "You are going to have to learn to stay out of my armpit!" I looked to see if we were going to have our first fight, but he was sound asleep. Or at least he pretended to be.
If noise is coming from somewhere else in the house it is at least possible to deal with. When the boys were teen-agers and we went to bed before they did, after the third, "Quiet down out there!", we often turned on the fan even when it wasn't hot so the "white noise" would drown out a lot of the commotion in the living room.
And here is my hint if you have a drippy faucet: put a sponge underneath the drip and you won't hear it. I don't know what to tell you about the neighbor's dog who whines all night. When we had that happen I asked my neighbor if she had heard a baby crying in the neighborhood. Turns out it was her dog and they did move it to another place or something. Really. I thought it was a baby. It was a total mystery to me how she assumed it was her dog.
Until this cold is over I'll just have to keep trying new things. Tonight I'm going to try to breathe in a rhythm. I'm hoping it will at least be kind of a lullaby. Eventually I'm sure I'll fall asleep. It will be just an hour before it is time to get up.
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
O. C. D.?
At what point do little habits, preferences, if you will, qualify for obsessions?
Is it when we are driving to the post office to drop off some bills and when we get there I go ahead and pull up to the second big mailbox because I know if I stop at the first one I will not be able to wrench the envelopes out of Dennis's hand? They MUST be deposited in the second box. Maybe he was scared by a mailbox when he was a little kid. Who knows? All I know is he will never, ever use the first box. See, he may have an obsession.
Or when Dennis has some pills to take. He takes a multitude of pills a day, unfortunately. He takes the pink one. He waits two minutes, at least. He takes the brown one shaped like a football. He waits the same amount of time. He takes the little brown one. He waits. Same thing with the little yellow one and the red and white capsule. You see where this is going. I have tried to tell him it doesn't matter if he takes them all at once. He disagrees and waits some more.
When he has an appointment I have asked our doctor, who is a professional and he has seen her at least every three months for eight years and she has never steered us wrong, if it is okay for him to take his pills all at once. She says "Sure." Dennis nods but the next time he goes to take his pills, he takes them at the same interval between each pill. Just think what he could do with that extra hour or so a day.
I have asked our-son-the-doctor, who has had four years of medical school, five years of residency and has been in practice eight and a half years, to explain it to him. He says, "Dad, don't be ridiculous." Dennis gives him The Look that says,"What do you know? You're a kid," and continues to take his pills the same way he has for years. This is rooted in his past, I'm sure. I remember his mother doing the same thing, but somebody might say it's a compulsion, or something.
I, of course, never do such arbitrary things. There are perfectly sane reasons why I do the things I do. Take car keys, for instance. No matter how soon I get out of the car after putting my keys in my purse, I have to reach back into my purse and touch them before I can lock the car. I tell myself while I am doing this "You just put them in your purse. You don't have to touch them." But I know if I don't touch them they will magically jump back into the ignition and I will lock them in the car. I don't have a spare key hidden in my wallet anymore because the car manufacturers kindly killed that option unless you want to pony up another $230 for an extra key. I've only locked the keys in the car once in the last couple of years. But then I sat and waited an hour for the locksmith to come with something that looked like a whoopee cushion and a bent coat hanger and opened the car for me in about thirty seconds. (Which is pretty scary in itself .) So, it's important to be careful about the keys.
And there's the cell phone. To overcome my fear of leaving home without it I must touch my cell phone in my pocket as I am walking out the door. Except for when I'm talking on it as I am heading for the car, reach in my pocket to see if the phone is there and then.... "Oh! My! Gosh!! Where is my phone?? I have to go back and look for it!" At which point my daughter-in-law, Jerilyn, who is usually the one I'm talking to at these times, waits patiently, thinking, "Check your hand. Are you holding it up to your ear? Is there anything in that hand?" but she's too polite to say it. I figure it out but I'm still uneasy as I get into the car because my pocket is empty.
Okay, there is that thing where I can't sleep at night until I have decided what I am going to wear the next day. Never mind that the only person who may see me that day is Dennis and he is almost legally blind so who cares, but I need to know. I may even get up out of bed, consult the closet, and only then can I go to sleep. But have you ever had that dream where you are walking down the hall at school and not only have you not studied for the exam you are about to take but you are also naked? Okay, I have too, but I have never yet actually gone to school or any place else naked because I am prepared by knowing what I am going to wear the next day. See, planning ahead is important.
I think other people may have the odd obsession here and there. I'm pretty sure I'm just being careful.
Is it when we are driving to the post office to drop off some bills and when we get there I go ahead and pull up to the second big mailbox because I know if I stop at the first one I will not be able to wrench the envelopes out of Dennis's hand? They MUST be deposited in the second box. Maybe he was scared by a mailbox when he was a little kid. Who knows? All I know is he will never, ever use the first box. See, he may have an obsession.
Or when Dennis has some pills to take. He takes a multitude of pills a day, unfortunately. He takes the pink one. He waits two minutes, at least. He takes the brown one shaped like a football. He waits the same amount of time. He takes the little brown one. He waits. Same thing with the little yellow one and the red and white capsule. You see where this is going. I have tried to tell him it doesn't matter if he takes them all at once. He disagrees and waits some more.
When he has an appointment I have asked our doctor, who is a professional and he has seen her at least every three months for eight years and she has never steered us wrong, if it is okay for him to take his pills all at once. She says "Sure." Dennis nods but the next time he goes to take his pills, he takes them at the same interval between each pill. Just think what he could do with that extra hour or so a day.
I have asked our-son-the-doctor, who has had four years of medical school, five years of residency and has been in practice eight and a half years, to explain it to him. He says, "Dad, don't be ridiculous." Dennis gives him The Look that says,"What do you know? You're a kid," and continues to take his pills the same way he has for years. This is rooted in his past, I'm sure. I remember his mother doing the same thing, but somebody might say it's a compulsion, or something.
I, of course, never do such arbitrary things. There are perfectly sane reasons why I do the things I do. Take car keys, for instance. No matter how soon I get out of the car after putting my keys in my purse, I have to reach back into my purse and touch them before I can lock the car. I tell myself while I am doing this "You just put them in your purse. You don't have to touch them." But I know if I don't touch them they will magically jump back into the ignition and I will lock them in the car. I don't have a spare key hidden in my wallet anymore because the car manufacturers kindly killed that option unless you want to pony up another $230 for an extra key. I've only locked the keys in the car once in the last couple of years. But then I sat and waited an hour for the locksmith to come with something that looked like a whoopee cushion and a bent coat hanger and opened the car for me in about thirty seconds. (Which is pretty scary in itself .) So, it's important to be careful about the keys.
And there's the cell phone. To overcome my fear of leaving home without it I must touch my cell phone in my pocket as I am walking out the door. Except for when I'm talking on it as I am heading for the car, reach in my pocket to see if the phone is there and then.... "Oh! My! Gosh!! Where is my phone?? I have to go back and look for it!" At which point my daughter-in-law, Jerilyn, who is usually the one I'm talking to at these times, waits patiently, thinking, "Check your hand. Are you holding it up to your ear? Is there anything in that hand?" but she's too polite to say it. I figure it out but I'm still uneasy as I get into the car because my pocket is empty.
Okay, there is that thing where I can't sleep at night until I have decided what I am going to wear the next day. Never mind that the only person who may see me that day is Dennis and he is almost legally blind so who cares, but I need to know. I may even get up out of bed, consult the closet, and only then can I go to sleep. But have you ever had that dream where you are walking down the hall at school and not only have you not studied for the exam you are about to take but you are also naked? Okay, I have too, but I have never yet actually gone to school or any place else naked because I am prepared by knowing what I am going to wear the next day. See, planning ahead is important.
I think other people may have the odd obsession here and there. I'm pretty sure I'm just being careful.
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
Buying in Bulk
When I was at Sam's Club earlier today the check-out belt across the aisle from me was piled so high that I couldn't tell what all was there. I saw a double pack of gallon orange juice bottles shrink wrapped together, industrial-sized containers of mayonnaise, big pillow case-sized bags of sugar, four thousand or so paper cups (the Solo kind) in tall stacks that I planned to steer clear of if we got to the door at the same time because the stacks were so long they could put your eye out, and some double cereal boxes the size of a coffee table. And more.
Sometimes I see people buying so much they have to load it onto big, flat dollies that look like aircraft carriers with handles and drag it through the store with all four wheels going in different directions. I think Sam's should supply something like land-based tug boats to guide those things. Anyway, I guess that if they are buying that much they must have a store or restaurant or something. Or maybe they have seventeen kids and they are just buying supplies for the week-end. And if that's the case, I want them to talk to me and tell me the logistics of cooking and cleaning and how much laundry they do. I don't know why, but I am always curious about these things.
My sister shops at Sam's all the time. Someone watching her might imagine that she is buying for a crew of construction workers, but she actually lives alone these days. It's a habit she can't seem to break, though. If she needs a can of green beans she buys a case. Paper plates come by the thousand and if you want margarine at her house be prepared to dig it out of a tub the size of a kitchen trash can. Last Christmas when she was here I wanted a few pieces of peppermint candy to put in a gift. She knew exactly what I needed and now I have a huge plastic container in my pantry that holds 290 peppermint balls, less the twenty I used. I'm prepared for many Christmases to come. If you get a gift from me that contains stale peppermints, blame it on her. One time a few years ago she had bought so much from Sam's in one year---I am not making this up!---that they gave her a special pass so she could come in the store at 6:00 a.m. to shop before anybody else was there, even most of the employees.
I don't know what it is about Sam's, and I hear Costco is the same way, but somehow when you are there you are mesmerized and feel as though you need to buy enough to feed the Third Infantry. And it's not really your fault. They don't carry the Family size. Their sizes come in Gigantic, Humongous, and Just-Back-Your-Truck-Up-To-The-Loading-Dock.
The one thing I am most curious about is how much are people paying for all this stuff? (Oh, please! Don't tell me you haven't wondered the same thing yourself.) I try to look, surreptitiously, when the checker rings them up but they always turn that screen away from me. So I think someday I'd like to be one of those people who stands at the door of Sam's and checks off people's receipts when they are leaving, then I could look at the totals and examine all the stuff in their baskets, too. Of course, when I said "Holy Cow! How long does it take you to go through a hundred and fifty-six rolls of toilet paper?" or something, somebody---I don't know who, I wouldn't---might take offense, but think how much I'd find out in the meantime.
And, just in case you are wondering what I was buying there, I only had two items: a box of Goldfish Crackers that contained three giant bags, a pound-and-a-half each, and a five pound bag of grated cheese. There's just Dennis and me. I didn't need to get the big ones.
Saturday, September 22, 2012
Plumbing Inequities
There was a lady on the news last night who, even though she was afraid of heights, got talked into going on a ride at Knott's Berry Farm that went three hundred feet into the air, and then it got stuck up there for four hours. She said she had a panic attack and now she has overcome her fear of heights.
Well, I'm glad for her but what I want to know is: how did she manage to hang three hundred feet in the air for four hours without a bathroom? I can't walk around on firm ground for four hours without a bathroom.
Bathrooms are my friends and I know most of the good ones in the Tulsa area and much of Oklahoma City. I visit them frequently to keep up our acquaintance. Quik Trips, of course, have some of the best and they do win the prize for being on almost every corner. But libraries are good and Reasor's grocery stores. Wal-Mart and Target, for sure. And Sam's. Any McDonald's. Twice I've dashed into Jack in the Box to use their bathroom but I don't buy food there. They may have encountered this beforecause the lights seem to be on an automatic timer and both times I've been there they have gone out when I was inside. Or maybe the manager figured out I wasn't going to buy anything and turned the lights off from a remote location. FYI, you want to avoid most gas stations, especially the ones where the door to the restroom is on the outside of the building. Just keep driving.
I know you're thinking, "Well these things happen when people age," and that would be true, but in my case it has been this way all my life. When God gave out bladders I got the small, sample size. Some of my relatives, (and by some I mean one) however, got the Lake Erie model. It is a bit of a problem when we travel together. I was very happy when that person was pregnant, you know how pregnant people are, and for a few blessed months she didn't feel I was slowing down the trip when I wanted to stop at every rest area on the turnpike.
We've all seen the commercials for bladder control medicine (and in fact, I think they modeled the whole scenario after me. I should get a royalty.) but when my doctor gave me a sample of one of them the directions had a monthly diary/calendar in it For medicine to work, you were to chart your behavior changes. And directions: "Drink less fluids, make yourself wait a little longer between times, etc." Well, duh! I don't have to take an expensive medicine to do that stuff. If I wanted to.
Okay, I drink a lot. No, not that. I start off the morning with a glass of ice water, usually go on to a large Diet Coke by 10:30 or so and the reason I like to go out for breakfast is that I can refill my Coke a couple of times. I have decided against moving to New York City now that they have that law against selling drinks larger than sixteen ounces. The McDonald's in Broken Arrow has half price on all drinks from 2:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. right now---that's fifty cents!--- and it would be un-American not to take advantage of that! But we drive through; I don't refill it. Then water till bedtime again. I usually have a glass near me all evening. And a glass of water on my bed table.
The most I manage to wait between bathroom breaks is when we are watching television at night and Gus, the Wonder-Yorkie, is asleep on my lap. I don't want to disturb him, so I wait. And wait. And pray for a squirrel or something to make a noise outside so he will jump up and run to the window. Speaking of television, one of my favorite things is the pause button on the DVR. You don't have to wait for a commercial any more if you need to make a short trip somewhere down the hall.
I did pull off about a four hour wait one time a couple of years ago, but let me tell you it was not easy. At the four hour point I was desperate. And at times like these, sometimes you just have to get inventive. In fact....just turn away here and go read your e-mail if you're squeamish.
It began when I took Dennis out to Glenpool to interview with a prospective consulting client. I waited in the car. I don't usually mind waiting if I have a good book, but then it got dark. And cold. And the fifty-four ounce Diet Coke I had consumed on the way out there was...how shall I say this? Wanting out. Desperately.
Now, I didn't know if Dennis had told the client I had driven him or not. I didn't want it to appear that Dennis was limited in any way until he got the job so I didn't want to announce my presence by going in and asking for a bathroom. (Turns out he had, but I didn't know that then, now did I?) I had seen signs for a Quik Trip and a McDonald's about a mile back down the road. But there was one more problem: there is a security gate on the driveway to that building and it locks at dark. If I left I couldn't get back in.
The conference room faces the glass front door and I could see Dennis and the client from where I sat in the parking lot. They seemed to be having quite a grand deliberation. There was gesturing. There was writing on a white board. There appeared to be deep discussion. There did not appear to be any getting up to leave. We had arrived for the appointment at 4:00. It was pushing 8:30.
I went through all the options in my mind and there didn't seem to be any. Well, I did have that fifty-four ounce cup. Desperate times call for desperate measures, as my mother-in-law used to say, and I won't go into any more details.
Dennis came out about 9:00. He has been consulting with this client ever since that time, which is really kind of a long time for a consulting gig. Sometimes when I go to pick him up he is still in meetings but now I know they have a very nice bathroom in the office.
Well, I'm glad for her but what I want to know is: how did she manage to hang three hundred feet in the air for four hours without a bathroom? I can't walk around on firm ground for four hours without a bathroom.
Bathrooms are my friends and I know most of the good ones in the Tulsa area and much of Oklahoma City. I visit them frequently to keep up our acquaintance. Quik Trips, of course, have some of the best and they do win the prize for being on almost every corner. But libraries are good and Reasor's grocery stores. Wal-Mart and Target, for sure. And Sam's. Any McDonald's. Twice I've dashed into Jack in the Box to use their bathroom but I don't buy food there. They may have encountered this beforecause the lights seem to be on an automatic timer and both times I've been there they have gone out when I was inside. Or maybe the manager figured out I wasn't going to buy anything and turned the lights off from a remote location. FYI, you want to avoid most gas stations, especially the ones where the door to the restroom is on the outside of the building. Just keep driving.
I know you're thinking, "Well these things happen when people age," and that would be true, but in my case it has been this way all my life. When God gave out bladders I got the small, sample size. Some of my relatives, (and by some I mean one) however, got the Lake Erie model. It is a bit of a problem when we travel together. I was very happy when that person was pregnant, you know how pregnant people are, and for a few blessed months she didn't feel I was slowing down the trip when I wanted to stop at every rest area on the turnpike.
We've all seen the commercials for bladder control medicine (and in fact, I think they modeled the whole scenario after me. I should get a royalty.) but when my doctor gave me a sample of one of them the directions had a monthly diary/calendar in it For medicine to work, you were to chart your behavior changes. And directions: "Drink less fluids, make yourself wait a little longer between times, etc." Well, duh! I don't have to take an expensive medicine to do that stuff. If I wanted to.
Okay, I drink a lot. No, not that. I start off the morning with a glass of ice water, usually go on to a large Diet Coke by 10:30 or so and the reason I like to go out for breakfast is that I can refill my Coke a couple of times. I have decided against moving to New York City now that they have that law against selling drinks larger than sixteen ounces. The McDonald's in Broken Arrow has half price on all drinks from 2:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. right now---that's fifty cents!--- and it would be un-American not to take advantage of that! But we drive through; I don't refill it. Then water till bedtime again. I usually have a glass near me all evening. And a glass of water on my bed table.
The most I manage to wait between bathroom breaks is when we are watching television at night and Gus, the Wonder-Yorkie, is asleep on my lap. I don't want to disturb him, so I wait. And wait. And pray for a squirrel or something to make a noise outside so he will jump up and run to the window. Speaking of television, one of my favorite things is the pause button on the DVR. You don't have to wait for a commercial any more if you need to make a short trip somewhere down the hall.
I did pull off about a four hour wait one time a couple of years ago, but let me tell you it was not easy. At the four hour point I was desperate. And at times like these, sometimes you just have to get inventive. In fact....just turn away here and go read your e-mail if you're squeamish.
It began when I took Dennis out to Glenpool to interview with a prospective consulting client. I waited in the car. I don't usually mind waiting if I have a good book, but then it got dark. And cold. And the fifty-four ounce Diet Coke I had consumed on the way out there was...how shall I say this? Wanting out. Desperately.
Now, I didn't know if Dennis had told the client I had driven him or not. I didn't want it to appear that Dennis was limited in any way until he got the job so I didn't want to announce my presence by going in and asking for a bathroom. (Turns out he had, but I didn't know that then, now did I?) I had seen signs for a Quik Trip and a McDonald's about a mile back down the road. But there was one more problem: there is a security gate on the driveway to that building and it locks at dark. If I left I couldn't get back in.
The conference room faces the glass front door and I could see Dennis and the client from where I sat in the parking lot. They seemed to be having quite a grand deliberation. There was gesturing. There was writing on a white board. There appeared to be deep discussion. There did not appear to be any getting up to leave. We had arrived for the appointment at 4:00. It was pushing 8:30.
I went through all the options in my mind and there didn't seem to be any. Well, I did have that fifty-four ounce cup. Desperate times call for desperate measures, as my mother-in-law used to say, and I won't go into any more details.
Dennis came out about 9:00. He has been consulting with this client ever since that time, which is really kind of a long time for a consulting gig. Sometimes when I go to pick him up he is still in meetings but now I know they have a very nice bathroom in the office.
Friday, September 21, 2012
Archeological Dig
I cleaned off my desk yesterday. Not this one with the computer. I'm here everyday and there's nothing here but the monitor, keyboard and a few essentials, like my Thesaurus for when my head is stuck and my Bible for good quotes for people on Facebook.
No, the desk in question is a small roll top that is in the living room. When the pile of things on the desk is too tall for the roll top to roll over it , it is time to do something.
Here are a few things I found:
Mazzio's coupons that expired last December. Now I'm hungry for Mazzio's pizza but I don't have any coupons. We only eat what we have coupons for.
Old, outdated receipts from Lowes that I saved so I could take their survey and get a $5000 gift card but you only have a week to do it even though I know exactly what I would purchase with that $5000.
Two self-addressed, stamped envelopes. I guess I never sent me anything.
A 2011 purse calendar. I'm trying to learn to use my phone calendar so I suppose I forgot it was in there but it is a very soft leather so I put it in my purse anyway. I love the feel of leather; I will just take it out and run my hands over it sometimes.
A box of business cards that say "Pat Carey Designs". t's been about a decade since I did much of that.
A list of people who brought food and flowers when I had all those surgeries a few years ago.If I still have the list maybe I never wrote the Thank You cards I intended to, so if you didn't get a Thank You from me I guess I owe you a Sorry card. Sorry!
Enough free return address labels with puppies, flowers and snowmen on them to last longer than I will ever be at this address.
A box of checks that will last longer than the address labels, even. Can't remember when I last wrote a check. I'm sure you think it is because I'm so up-to-date that I do everything on-line, but no. I stopped using checks when banks got so smart alec that you couldn't write a check and then run get money from your husband or somebody and deposit it before the check got to the bank. I just use cash. When there is no more cash in my purse I know I am done so I go home.
A wad of deposit slips because the ones that came with the checks are long gone. I keep getting a bunch from the bank to keep in my desk but then when I get to the bank I don't have one so I use theirs. I wish they were worth money. Then that running between banks thing never would have had to happen in the first place.
A Valentine for "A Cute 2 Year Old Boy" with Grover on it. Sadly, there hasn't been a cute two year old boy around here for fourteen years now. I try not to waste anything but I'm pretty sure my grandson, David, would not appreciate it any more, even though he is still pretty cute. But sixteen.
A Bas Mitzvah card. Well, when I first found it (not so easy here in the Bible Belt, so I grabbed it while I could) my friend in California had a little girl that I knew would do a Bas Mitzvah someday. It happens when Jewish girls are thirteen, just like Jewish boys do a Bar Mitzvah, only with more flowers and pink stuff. Anyway, Melinda is about twenty-five now and I don't know any other Jewish girls, but it seems a shame to just toss the card. If you can use it, let me know.
School pictures of two of my grandkids. I am waiting for the ones from the other two so I can put them in the frames in front of the school pictures from last year. I keep piling each year on top of the last one. I may have to change the frames for shadow boxes by the time they graduate.
A really cute school picture of Dennis when he was nine. It is one of those two inch ones so I don't have a frame. He looks kind of ornery in it, as a matter of fact. Wish I knew what he was thinking.
A Rolodex that had belonged to Dennis's mother and now I use it. If you don't know what it is, it is like the Contacts section of your phone only on real cards. I probably only use it at Christmas now but it has lots of info in it. I can't bring myself to pull out the cards of the people who have died. The older we get the more of them there are.
A notebook with a calculator, a tape measurer and graph paper in it so I can come into your house, measure off your rooms and tell you how to arrange your furniture. Or what furniture to buy from me.The last furniture store that I worked for has been closed for the last few years. I don't know what that says about my salesmanship. Oh, wait. They didn't close until after I was gone. I was probably propping the place up the whole time.
And last, an engraved name plate that says "Patty Carey" that sat on a cubicle when someone else was the boss of me, so that people who came by could tell I was a real person. It has an awful lot of dust on it.
No, the desk in question is a small roll top that is in the living room. When the pile of things on the desk is too tall for the roll top to roll over it , it is time to do something.
Here are a few things I found:
Mazzio's coupons that expired last December. Now I'm hungry for Mazzio's pizza but I don't have any coupons. We only eat what we have coupons for.
Old, outdated receipts from Lowes that I saved so I could take their survey and get a $5000 gift card but you only have a week to do it even though I know exactly what I would purchase with that $5000.
Two self-addressed, stamped envelopes. I guess I never sent me anything.
A 2011 purse calendar. I'm trying to learn to use my phone calendar so I suppose I forgot it was in there but it is a very soft leather so I put it in my purse anyway. I love the feel of leather; I will just take it out and run my hands over it sometimes.
A box of business cards that say "Pat Carey Designs". t's been about a decade since I did much of that.
A list of people who brought food and flowers when I had all those surgeries a few years ago.If I still have the list maybe I never wrote the Thank You cards I intended to, so if you didn't get a Thank You from me I guess I owe you a Sorry card. Sorry!
Enough free return address labels with puppies, flowers and snowmen on them to last longer than I will ever be at this address.
A box of checks that will last longer than the address labels, even. Can't remember when I last wrote a check. I'm sure you think it is because I'm so up-to-date that I do everything on-line, but no. I stopped using checks when banks got so smart alec that you couldn't write a check and then run get money from your husband or somebody and deposit it before the check got to the bank. I just use cash. When there is no more cash in my purse I know I am done so I go home.
A wad of deposit slips because the ones that came with the checks are long gone. I keep getting a bunch from the bank to keep in my desk but then when I get to the bank I don't have one so I use theirs. I wish they were worth money. Then that running between banks thing never would have had to happen in the first place.
A Valentine for "A Cute 2 Year Old Boy" with Grover on it. Sadly, there hasn't been a cute two year old boy around here for fourteen years now. I try not to waste anything but I'm pretty sure my grandson, David, would not appreciate it any more, even though he is still pretty cute. But sixteen.
A Bas Mitzvah card. Well, when I first found it (not so easy here in the Bible Belt, so I grabbed it while I could) my friend in California had a little girl that I knew would do a Bas Mitzvah someday. It happens when Jewish girls are thirteen, just like Jewish boys do a Bar Mitzvah, only with more flowers and pink stuff. Anyway, Melinda is about twenty-five now and I don't know any other Jewish girls, but it seems a shame to just toss the card. If you can use it, let me know.
School pictures of two of my grandkids. I am waiting for the ones from the other two so I can put them in the frames in front of the school pictures from last year. I keep piling each year on top of the last one. I may have to change the frames for shadow boxes by the time they graduate.
A really cute school picture of Dennis when he was nine. It is one of those two inch ones so I don't have a frame. He looks kind of ornery in it, as a matter of fact. Wish I knew what he was thinking.
A Rolodex that had belonged to Dennis's mother and now I use it. If you don't know what it is, it is like the Contacts section of your phone only on real cards. I probably only use it at Christmas now but it has lots of info in it. I can't bring myself to pull out the cards of the people who have died. The older we get the more of them there are.
A notebook with a calculator, a tape measurer and graph paper in it so I can come into your house, measure off your rooms and tell you how to arrange your furniture. Or what furniture to buy from me.The last furniture store that I worked for has been closed for the last few years. I don't know what that says about my salesmanship. Oh, wait. They didn't close until after I was gone. I was probably propping the place up the whole time.
And last, an engraved name plate that says "Patty Carey" that sat on a cubicle when someone else was the boss of me, so that people who came by could tell I was a real person. It has an awful lot of dust on it.
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Things Under the Bed
I'm not sure what all is under my bed any more. Probably a little, okay, a bunch of dust, of course. There was an old, black and white Jimmy Stewart movie called "Harvey" in which Harvey was a six-foot tall rabbit. I'm kind of thinking what some people call dust bunnies under the bed has most likely grown into Harvey by now. I can't get down there to look. Well, okay, I could get down there but then I couldn't get up and my days of sleeping on the floor are long past.
When our cats were kittens we were always losing them under the bed. They had found a hole in the dust protector (you know: that cheesecloth looking thing that is stapled to the bottom of the box springs) It was just big enough for them to squeeze in and whenever you tried to grab one he ran to the other side, his little feet bouncing like he was on a trampoline. There was no way that you could get them out even if you poked them with a broom which they thought was a hilarious game. They waited until we finally gave up, took a little cat-nap till we were sound asleep, then came out and dashed around the bedroom causing us (and by "us" I mean me) to get up and chase them. Then they ran under the bed and up into the dust cover again. It was quite fun. For them.
Eighteenth Century reproduction furniture was the most popular style back when I sold furniture and we sold a lot of four-poster beds, some called Rice Beds (sheaves of rice carved into the posts) and others called Tester Beds (usually straight pencil-shaped posts.) What those beds had in common was that they were way-way-way! off the floor, usually about sixteen to eighteen inches, and you could see straight through from one side of the room to the other if you bent down and looked. The point being that heat rises and in 1786 or so, with no central heat, it was nice to get a little closer to the ceiling. Also, you could fit the chamber pot under there but we won't go into that today. We even sold little sets of steps so you could climb into the high beds. I always thought they were beautiful, but even if I could have afforded one, I wouldn't have gotten it because I need to be able to hide things under the bed. (But not a chamber pot. Or kittens.)
Whenever I get something too big to fit anywhere else, I slide it under the bed. I know there's a big frying pan under there now. My daughter-in-law was getting rid of hers and it was better than mine so I took it but I don't want to give up my old one yet. I may get the urge to fry up a lot of something. The leaf to the table is under there. (Here's a tip: if you are storing your table leaves standing up in the closet or somewhere, go get them and put them under the bed. They need to lie flat or they will warp. I know this from my furniture selling days) And a great big stainless steel bowl like they have in commercial kitchens. It is twenty-four inches across and won't fit in my kitchen cabinets. You could wash a baby in it. Or have a whole lot of salad to go with all that stuff you fried. I've only used it once, but you never know. They make nice containers on wheels to store things under your bed, like shoes, I guess, but I don't have any of those.
There is most likely a whole lot more. There are probably dog toys that the dog has lost, and cat toys that the dog is hiding from the cat. And I hope there are two or three earrings and a watch that have disappeared because I've searched everywhere else. But I might not find out till we move or something. When we got as new mattress a few years ago it was pretty scary under there. You may be surprised, but I am not the type who moves the bed to vacuum underneath. Please! (I know there are some of you are out there who do and I beg you: seek help!)
I read in Genesis where God says to Man something like "Dust you were and to dust you shall return." I'm thinking there may be a man under the bed, but I don't know if he's coming or going. He's next to Harvey.
When our cats were kittens we were always losing them under the bed. They had found a hole in the dust protector (you know: that cheesecloth looking thing that is stapled to the bottom of the box springs) It was just big enough for them to squeeze in and whenever you tried to grab one he ran to the other side, his little feet bouncing like he was on a trampoline. There was no way that you could get them out even if you poked them with a broom which they thought was a hilarious game. They waited until we finally gave up, took a little cat-nap till we were sound asleep, then came out and dashed around the bedroom causing us (and by "us" I mean me) to get up and chase them. Then they ran under the bed and up into the dust cover again. It was quite fun. For them.
Eighteenth Century reproduction furniture was the most popular style back when I sold furniture and we sold a lot of four-poster beds, some called Rice Beds (sheaves of rice carved into the posts) and others called Tester Beds (usually straight pencil-shaped posts.) What those beds had in common was that they were way-way-way! off the floor, usually about sixteen to eighteen inches, and you could see straight through from one side of the room to the other if you bent down and looked. The point being that heat rises and in 1786 or so, with no central heat, it was nice to get a little closer to the ceiling. Also, you could fit the chamber pot under there but we won't go into that today. We even sold little sets of steps so you could climb into the high beds. I always thought they were beautiful, but even if I could have afforded one, I wouldn't have gotten it because I need to be able to hide things under the bed. (But not a chamber pot. Or kittens.)
Whenever I get something too big to fit anywhere else, I slide it under the bed. I know there's a big frying pan under there now. My daughter-in-law was getting rid of hers and it was better than mine so I took it but I don't want to give up my old one yet. I may get the urge to fry up a lot of something. The leaf to the table is under there. (Here's a tip: if you are storing your table leaves standing up in the closet or somewhere, go get them and put them under the bed. They need to lie flat or they will warp. I know this from my furniture selling days) And a great big stainless steel bowl like they have in commercial kitchens. It is twenty-four inches across and won't fit in my kitchen cabinets. You could wash a baby in it. Or have a whole lot of salad to go with all that stuff you fried. I've only used it once, but you never know. They make nice containers on wheels to store things under your bed, like shoes, I guess, but I don't have any of those.
There is most likely a whole lot more. There are probably dog toys that the dog has lost, and cat toys that the dog is hiding from the cat. And I hope there are two or three earrings and a watch that have disappeared because I've searched everywhere else. But I might not find out till we move or something. When we got as new mattress a few years ago it was pretty scary under there. You may be surprised, but I am not the type who moves the bed to vacuum underneath. Please! (I know there are some of you are out there who do and I beg you: seek help!)
I read in Genesis where God says to Man something like "Dust you were and to dust you shall return." I'm thinking there may be a man under the bed, but I don't know if he's coming or going. He's next to Harvey.
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